Ever see a thread in the Ladies Forum that your just itching to Post On, But then this Big Ugly Fro Head comes along and destroys your constructive Critismn? Well, Now youve got somewhere to post your reply's. Try to keep it clean I guess....... and only constructive critismn... I guess.. See below for an Example. | ||
On Sunday night, my boyfriend left me two voicemails that I discovered that Monday morning. One of the voicemails was a break up one saying that our relationship isn't going to work out, then about 10 minutes later I discovered the second voicemail telling me to disregard the break up message. I talked to him that Monday afternoon and he was like I start arguements with him about stupid stuff and when we argue, I raise my voice and become loud. After working through all of that, that night he tells me that he feels as if we rushed into our relationship and we haven't got to know each other that much. We have been dating for 5 months and he tells me this now. He tells me that we are still boyfriend and girlfriend, but we are known by others as no longer together-basically keeping our relationship on the down low so everyone will be happy as in my mother and friend. Right now, I don't know what we are because he still calls me babe and tells me that he loves me, but I don't know...All of this worrying of what we are and if we will continue is making me sick to my stomach literally. I don't know what to do. | ||
First of All, he TELLS you your still Bf and Gf. Isnt that something that should be mutual 0_0. Second, dont go Dropping the L Bomb after 5 Months. Thats relationship suicide. (But from the sound of it thats been happening since week 2) Sounds like they were good to start off with, but now the honey moon periods over and old mate is starting to get the good old commitment phobia (my old friend) and doesnt know what he wants. My Advice, keep it fun and casual, if you want to hang out thats all good, if you want to do whatever its all good, just dont be going around telling each other you love each other and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. Its Wrong. | ||
yeah that one was gettin to me as well yeah the Gf an Bf is a mutual deal to me it sounds like someone is being pushed around in that situation and it isnt fair to both parties,LOL and rushing into a relationship let see that line sounds to much to me, like sorry i have found someone else but dont have the cahonnes to tell you ,but we can still be friends kinda deal, my advice if you see this ,end it if your tearin yourself apart over it, no point to beating yourself up in a relationship if you want to call it that | ||
Sorry I'm late, but I couldn't help but post. In defense of the lady, it seems really simple in text, but in real life you add emotion. She is probably hurt and is just wanting to talk to some one about it. Oh wait, you're all villains, you don't care. In advice, I think if a guy calls you and says that you're over, then he says you're back on, I think it's time to duck and run. He is either cheating or doesn't want the commitment of having a girlfriend, both very dump-worthy. I'd say this is a guy who isn't sure in anything, and he should be absolutely sure he wants you, not hopping on and off the bandwagon. This girl obviously really likes this guy or she would have jumped ship by now. | ||
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